To walk in integrity outside of moral failure has some great benefits to it.  I am not sure if you have ever thought about the consequences of having an affair, but here are a few to meditate on:

• Working to rebuild trust and an uninhibited marriage of oneness once again (spiritually, sexually, emotionally)
• Embarrassing family, losing their respect and trust
• Having to walk away from a job or ministry position
• Possibly having to relocate
• Possibly facing newspaper articles, publicly printed communication and social media about personal failure
• Facing rumors, gossip and lies
• Having to face untold and far-reaching negative consequences either based on truth and fact or hearsay
• Maybe having to face the law or possible law suits
• Losing or forfeiting many friendships and local church relationships
• Living with wounds and scars
• Feeling as though everyone is watching you
• Suffering from overwhelming thoughts of failure
• Continually reliving the past and coming up with regret and loss
• Living with continual condemnation
• Struggling to sleep at night
• Waking up in the morning and wondering how to look forward to a new day
• Having to be concerned about who one may face or encounter throughout the day
• Suffering the loss of vision
• Having to go through biblical discipline and a restoration process
• Being unable to look at one’s family and all others in the eye
• Being unable to look at oneself in the mirror without feeling condemnation and feeling like a failure
• Suffering from an unclear conscience; walking through life feeling a cloud over oneself
• Feeling the loss of ones peace and joy
• Suffering through the loss and grief of broken relationship with God
• Living with the deep hurt and pain you caused the one with whom you vowed a promise of fidelity