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My “Victim Awareness Letter of Apology”

A number of years ago we were robbed. What a mess with such senseless damage to deal with. There were police reports, insurance company calls and descriptions, pictures taken and more police calls after the individual was caught.


Long after the damage was repaired and we were able to identify what was stolen, we received the following letter from the minor who created this nightmare. It read:


Dear Mr. Prokopchak, I’m sorry for what I did to you and I know it was the wrong thing to do. And if there is anything that I can do for you tell me or write back. And will not ever do some thing like this again. So plz take my apology and I’m really sorry.


We were pleased the probation department of his county required this letter of apology and for him to pay his fines. It was a costly mistake.


I did write him back. I told him how violated we felt. I told him that it was not good for him or for us and I told him that taking responsibility for his mistake was the right thing to do. More importantly, I told him that we forgave him and we would not hold it against him. Finally, I told him that I believed it had matured him and that he would become an amazing young man with a wonderful future who would experience personal growth through all of this.


Then I shared what he could do for me. I wrote, “You could receive God’s forgiveness for what you have done and then forgive yourself and start over. All things could become new in a personal relationship with Jesus.”


2 thoughts on “My “Victim Awareness Letter of Apology”

  1. Debbie Henry says:

    Thanks for sharing and demonstrating God’s love and forgiveness. I believe also that he will forgive himself and invite Jesus Christ in his heart. God has good plans for his life.


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