In every election and every sporting event there is a winner and there is a loser. It’s inevitable. You chose your team, you cheer and you campaign, but you know from the start there is a winner and a loser. You hope and pray for the win, all the while knowing you and your choice could suffer a loss.

Perhaps your candidate lost the election or maybe your candidate won. Think about the fact that for many people, too many people most likely, the candidate they voted for won, but that candidate was not who they felt fully represented them or their personal values.

However, here is a key factor: how do you respond when you lose and how do you respond when you win? Do you go on social media and rub your win in the face of others? Do you whine and complain that the other team cheated or the officiating was terrible? Your response is up to you and you alone. No one cares for sore losers and no one really embraces those who loudly and obnoxiously brag about their win. 

Do you wear that win or loss on your sleeve? In other words, are you angry, depressed, silent or are you boastful and loud, arrogant and taking to the streets with an, “I told you so” attitude? Winning is fun, adrenalin-filled and there is an amazing comradery with those you aligned yourself alongside in a win. Losing is hard, frustrating and sometimes emotionally draining. If a loss is determined to be someone/something significant enough, we can lose sleep, we can look for someone to blame or we can even give up hope for a future win. It’s all up to us and what we tell ourselves. 

What is the solution? We need to place those wins and those losses into their proper perspective. Is losing the game worth being angry about? Is it worth writing a letter to the editor of the sports column? Is it worth higher blood pressure or is it really of a lesser life value than we are making it ? 

Here is a very important question to ask ourselves: what impact does the winner (of this election) have on me personally, i.e., what God has called me to do for Him?

Going forward with a perspective from God’s word

Isaiah wrote these amazing words: “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.” We love those words, but did you know earlier in chapter 40 of Isaiah it states this: “He brings princes to naught and reduces the rulers of this world to nothing. No sooner are they planted, no sooner are they sown, no sooner do they take root in the ground, than he blows on them and they wither, and a whirlwind sweeps them away like chaff. To whom will you compare me?” Elections can go either way, but it is God who raises up or reduces.

“Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.” (Proverbs 19:21)

If losing separates you from those who won or vice versa, you have effectively allowed the results to determine your mindset rather than allowing love to prevail. We must continue to, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ ” (Luke 10:27)

And finally, with your whole heart pray for your leaders (I Timothy 2:1-2). Prayer will keep your heart, mind and attitude in a better place. When you do not agree with or even like your boss, you are still submissive to their leadership and their requirements. 

“Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. Consequently, whoever rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves. For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do wrong. Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and you will be commended.” (Romans 13:1-3)