Accountability is not a popular topic these days. We love our freedom and our independence to decide for ourselves without the restriction of someone “looking over our shoulder.” We can find it intrusive and cast it off as, “my business is my business.” The problem with that line of thinking is it’s truly un-biblical. Could you imagine Jesus saying, “Listen to my teaching and watch me heal the sick, but realize that my personal life is none of your business?” Or, how about if Paul the Apostle shared with the church in Corinth, “I am going to call out your sin, but you dare not call out mine?” We simply do not live as unto ourselves.
Accountability is when you or I walk in a certain conviction, but realize we need help from others. We are encouraged to go to our overseer, leader or friend and humbly describe to them what it is we need accountability in. Here are four steps to help make accountability a lifestyle.
1. We approach someone and make an inquiry to see if they are up to the task of asking us a few difficult questions. You’ll need to be explicit in what it is you desire to be held accountable in.
2. Then give the person(s) some actual questions they can ask and how often you desire them to be asked. How severe the issue you are dealing with determines how often you meet and are being held accountable.
3. Further, ask them to call you randomly, outside actual face-to-face meetings (text and email are good too, but calls are best). This provides an element of surprise.
4. As well, be sure to let them know to change it up. In other words, give them permission and encouragement to ask you about other areas of your life.
We will be held accountable to God (Romans 14:12), but opening up our lives and having help while still on earth can cause tremendous growth in our lives. Who are you accountable to?
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These are very useful guidelines, Steve. Thank you!