Being trapped in drug addiction Is a horrible way to live: the lying; the hiding; the destruction to self, your marriage, your children and your future. Several years ago, I lost my 49-year-old cousin to an overdose and I promised myself that I would not stop loving, chasing and attempting to help others. But drug use changes things.
It changes relationship with God and others. It changes financial conditions. It changes the ability to deal with life in terms of reality. Drug addiction stops personal growth and causes regression. It is idolatry at its finest.
Don’t get me wrong. I am not judging drug addicts as having the worst sin because each of us have our issues. But it affects so many areas of life that the personal cost, the family cost and the societal cost is so great; all the while, the person can sometimes live in denial of their very own problem. It is called a “disease” and I guess that is how our world tries to understand, define and cope with it.
The problem with that, in my mind, is that so much personal choice and responsibility are involved. Truly “disease” is a better term than mental illness, but when we make a continual choice to abuse, regardless of the number of rehabs we have gone through or programs at huge expense to so many, then I feel the need to ask the question that Jesus asked, “Do you want to be well?”
The real disease is often directly connected to selfishness. You have effectively made yourself more important than anyone else in your life. If that sounds harsh, please let me explain. We are not our own; we were bought with a price. I Corinthians 13 reminds us that love does not seek its own. When we live in self-centeredness, forgetting who we really are, who we were made to be, why we were created in the image of God, we forget whose image we are truly to live in. When we are consumed with our own selfish desires, we will never love others in the way we were created to and, hear me, that includes loving ourselves.
Maybe mentally these persons feel as though they have no choice. I have never been there. But in the lives of those whom I have cared about, I have watched them throw away those who love them, those who employ them and those who truly care about them. No one is beyond hope, the love of Jesus or life change, but don’t we have to want it, desire it, be passionate for it? Don’t we need to want to be well? Don’t we need to stop choosing and chasing this “disease” that is killing us?
If I am not writing these things in love, then I have no voice; it’s only religious judgment. But if I speak from love, concern and God’s heart, then hear me. No matter our sin, our history, our personal pain or our idolatry, there is an answer, always an answer which gives freedom. It is the cross, the Man who carried your sorrow, your grief, your pain and your addiction. He is the only One who can identify and redeem. Be assured of His love and the hope always found in Him. Come home to Him, please, before it’s too late.